The Descendants will make some people, myself included, reassess the hard-nosed belief that, once someone has betrayed your trust, they should be cut out of your life forever. As with everything else in life, it’s never as simple as it seems. This is a humbling realization, as anyone who’s ever been screwed over and made it through the five stages of grief will attest, but ultimately it is an empowering one. To forgive someone else often means coming to the realization that you must forgive yourself first. And regardless of the severity of the transgressions involved, coming to grips with one necessitates owning up to the other.
Matt King (George Clooney) is a married man who has lost his way. Somewhere in between getting married, becoming a lawyer and raising two daughters, he lost touch with his wife, Elizabeth (Patricia Hastie). But he’s finally ready to commit to being the husband she so desperately wants and needs… as soon as she wakes up from her coma. Twenty-three days ago his wife was involved in a boating accident off the coast of Hawaii, and she has yet to wake up. This is the first time he has ever had to take care of their two daughters by himself and it must have dawned on him how much he took her for granted. But not anymore.
This is Matt’s attitude before the doctor tells him his wife’s condition is so grave that she isn’t going to get any better and that, per her wishes, she will be taken off life support in the next few days and die shortly thereafter. As if that weren’t enough to deal with, while pressing his rebellious daughter Alexandra (Shailene Woodley) to let go of whatever problems she was having with her mother, he discovers his wife was having an affair and planned to leave him. Now, instead of making things right, all he wants are answers. But Matt isn’t even granted the most basic right afforded the cheated – the chance to confront his partner with the callow hope that she may say something to ease his agony or relinquish his rage. Instead, he is forced to find answers elsewhere. Namely, by hunting down the man Elizabeth was “seeing.”
On top of all this, he also has to determine what to do with a large chunk of land his family has inherited. Land that is worth a ton of money and of which he is the sole trustee. From his daughter’s addlebrained boyfriend, Sid (Nick Krause), to his disgruntled father-in-law, Scott (Robert Forster), to the cousins attempting to influence his decision regarding the land, and now, the man his wife was having an affair with (Matthew Lillard), there is no shortage of people fighting for Matt’s attention. Keeping his head above water through this ordeal is Matt’s sole task, and like it or not, we are along for the ride.
Clooney, in a role that seems to be the antithesis of his public persona, completely transforms into the inattentive husband and father fighting to keep his family from falling apart. Woodley is especially impressive as the seventeen year old Alexandra, bringing depth and sincerity to a character much too young to be dealing with something so heavy. Add to this the subtle direction of Alexander Payne (Sideways), and you have a story that seems to tell itself. No funky plot devices, crafty CGI, or deus ex machine to wrap things up. Just a family with familiar failures trying to make it through a shitty situation. And who can’t relate to that?
“Sometimes loving means letting so,” someone once said. And they were right, but they neglected to mention how fucking hard that can be. Whenever love is taken away from us, we tend to find solace by clinging to our hate. If we’re honest, we’ll realize we do this because it almost always feels better to be connected to something… anything… even if it causes us despair. At best it will motivate us to create something of resonance for our fellow brokenhearted. And at the very least it means we’re not alone. Eventually though, if we’re lucky, we recognize our dysfunctional way of thinking and begin the process of recovery, realizing that the answers we’ve been searching everywhere to find were with us all along. This is Matt’s journey, as well as our own.









